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Getting Started
New here? Start with the basics.
Create Your Account
Sign up with your email or social login. Add a photo, write a short bio, and select your city to start discovering events near you.
Sign up
Create your account with email or Google. It takes less than a minute.
Complete your profile
Add a photo, headline, and a few interests so other attendees can get to know you.
Select your city
Pick your city to see upcoming events. You can always browse other cities too.
Browse & RSVP to Your First Event
Explore events in your city, check the vibe and venue, then reserve your spot. Members get priority access and skip the waitlist.
- Check the vibe tag to find events that match your style.
- RSVP early — popular events fill up fast.
- Members never hit the waitlist and get discounted tickets.
Check In at the Event
When you arrive, show your QR code ticket to the host. They will scan it to check you in. Your check-in counts toward your attendance streak.
Find your ticket
Go to My Tickets in your dashboard to find your QR code.
Show the host
The host will scan your code at the door. That is it — you are in.
Enjoy the event
Mingle, have fun, and don't forget to send sparks to anyone you click with.
Events & RSVPs
Everything about finding and attending events.
How Events Work
We host curated happy hours, mixers, wine tastings, and more at the best venues in your city. Most events have 20-50 attendees for an intimate, social atmosphere. Each event listing includes the venue, time, dress code, and a vibe tag so you know what to expect.
Event Types & Vibes
From casual happy hours to upscale rooftop socials, every event has a personality. Vibe tags like Chill, Upscale, Adventurous, and Party help you pick events that match your style.
- Classic Happy Hour — relaxed drinks at a great bar.
- Rooftop Social — upscale vibes with skyline views.
- Wine Tasting — intimate and conversational.
- Speed Dating — structured rounds, fast intros.
- Themed Mixer — costume nights, trivia, karaoke.
- Brunch — daytime social with food and drinks.
Waitlists & Cancellations
If an event is full, join the waitlist. When someone cancels, the next person gets bumped up automatically and notified. Members skip the waitlist entirely with priority RSVPs.
Sparks & Connections
Meet people, send sparks, and make real connections.
How Sparks Work
After attending an event, you can send anonymous sparks to people you connected with. If they spark you back, it is a mutual match — both identities are revealed and you can start chatting.
Attend an event
Sparks are only available for events you attended.
Send sparks
Visit the Sparks page and choose up to 3 people from recent events. Your spark is completely anonymous.
Match!
If someone sparks you back, you are both revealed and can start messaging each other directly.
- You get 3 sparks per event — choose wisely.
- Sparks are anonymous until they are mutual.
- Members get access to Spark Hints to preview attendees.
Connections
Connections are people you have met at events. You can send connection requests to fellow attendees after an event. Once they accept, you become connections and unlock direct messaging.
- Browse the People You've Met section to discover fellow attendees.
- Connections last forever once established.
- You will need to send your first DM within 72 hours of connecting (see Messaging).
Messaging & Chat
Group chats, DMs, and staying connected.
Event Chat
Every event has a dedicated group chat where attendees can introduce themselves and make plans before the event. Chat opens 24 hours before the event starts and stays active for 48 hours after it ends.
- Introduce yourself early — it makes the event way more fun.
- Chat is a great place to find people with shared interests before you show up.
- After the event, use chat to exchange info with people you met.
Direct Messages
Once you and another member are connected (through sparks or connection requests), you can message each other directly. DMs are private, one-on-one conversations.
The 72-Hour DM Window
When a new connection is accepted, you have 72 hours to send your first message. This keeps conversations timely and encourages you to reach out while the energy from the event is still fresh. Once either person sends a message, the window disappears and you can chat forever.
Connection accepted
A 72-hour countdown starts as soon as the connection is mutual.
Send a message
Just say hi! Once either person messages, the timer clears permanently.
Don't wait too long
If 72 hours pass with no messages, the DM window expires and you will need to reconnect at another event.
Fun Features
Icebreakers, Vibe Check, Hot Takes, and more.
Icebreaker Roulette
Fun prompts that open 48 hours before each event. Answer them, then see how other attendees responded. It is the perfect way to find conversation starters and things in common before you show up.
Answer prompts
Visit the Icebreakers page and answer fun questions for your upcoming events.
See others
Check out how other attendees answered — great fuel for real conversations.
Connect at the event
Use what you learned to break the ice with people in person.
Vibe Check
A this-or-that compatibility quiz. Answer quick preference questions and see your match percentage with other event attendees. Higher match means you probably have a lot in common.
- The more questions you answer, the more accurate your matches.
- Check your compatibility scores before events to know who to look for.
- Vibe Check results show up on event pages so you can prioritize connections.
Hot Takes
Daily community polls and debates. A new topic drops every day — vote A or B, see how the community splits, and jump into the comments. Topics range from dating preferences to food debates to lifestyle choices.
- New Hot Takes drop daily — check back every day.
- Filter by category: Dating, Food, Lifestyle, and more.
- Comments are where the real debates happen.
Memories & Photos
Relive events and share your best moments.
Post-Event Gallery
After an event ends, the Memories wall opens up for attendees to share photos and relive the night. Browse photos, tag people you met, and leave reactions.
Wait for the wall to open
The Memories wall opens about 24 hours after the event ends.
Upload and share
Share your favorite moments from the night. Add a caption to tell the story.
Tag and react
Tag attendees in photos and leave reactions on your favorites.
Tagging Attendees
If you took a photo with someone at the event, tag them so they get notified. Only the photo uploader can add tags, and you can only tag people who attended the same event.
Membership
Get more out of every event with membership perks.
What You Get
Membership is $25 per month and works in every city we operate in. You can cancel anytime with no long-term contracts.
- Priority RSVPs — skip the waitlist entirely.
- Exclusive member-only events at premium venues.
- Verified member badge on your profile.
- 2 guest passes per month — bring a friend.
- Calendar sync — add events to Google, Apple, or Outlook.
- Cross-city access — attend events in any city when you travel.
- Early event chat — join chat 24 hours before the event.
- Social Groups — get matched into group chats of 8 with auto-icebreakers.
Guest Passes
Members get 2 guest passes per month. Invite a friend to any event and they get the full member experience for the night. Passes reset at the start of each billing cycle.
Managing Your Membership
View your membership status, update payment, or cancel anytime from the Membership section in your dashboard. When you cancel, you keep benefits through the end of your current billing period.
Hosting
Bring people together as a verified host.
Becoming a Host
If you are passionate about bringing singles together and know great venues in your city, apply to become a Verified Host. We look for social, reliable people who can create welcoming atmospheres.
Apply
Visit the Host Application page and tell us about yourself and your city.
Get approved
Our team reviews applications within a few business days.
Start hosting
Once approved, you get access to the Host Dashboard where you can create and manage events.
Managing Events
From the Host Dashboard you can create events, set pricing and capacity, manage the guest list, and check in attendees with the QR scanner. You can also upload photos to the Memories wall after the event.
Social Groups
Gender-balanced group chats to meet new people.
How Social Groups Work
Social Groups match you into gender-balanced group chats of 8 people (4 men + 4 women) in your city. When you join the queue, we find a forming group for you. Once all 8 spots fill, a private group chat opens automatically with a fun icebreaker to get the conversation started.
Join the queue
Go to the Social Groups hub in your dashboard and tap Join Queue. You will need your gender set on your profile.
Wait for your group
You will be placed in a forming group. Watch the progress as men and women fill the remaining spots.
Chat activates
When 4 men and 4 women have joined, the group chat opens instantly. An icebreaker question kicks off the conversation.
Start chatting
Answer the icebreaker, introduce yourself, and get to know your group. It is a great way to meet people between events.
Icebreakers in Social Groups
Every new Social Group starts with an automatic icebreaker question. These are interactive cards where you can type your answer and see how others respond. Categories range from fun and silly to deep and thought-provoking.
Leaving a Group
If a group is not for you, you can leave anytime from the Social Groups hub. Your departure will be noted in the chat. You can rejoin the queue immediately to be matched into a new group.